Korean Etiquette 101: Do’s and Don’ts for Travelers

 

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Traveling to Korea is an exciting adventure, but understanding local customs can make the difference between being just a tourist and being a respectful guest. Korean etiquette is deeply rooted in Confucian values—respect for elders, humility, and harmony. Whether you’re here for a short visit or an extended stay, knowing these do’s and don’ts will help you navigate Korean society with confidence.


🙇‍♂️ 1. Bowing Is the Basic Greeting

Forget handshakes—a slight bow is the go-to greeting in Korea. The depth of your bow depends on the formality of the situation. When in doubt, a modest 15-degree bow while saying “안녕하세요” (annyeonghaseyo) is always appreciated.

Do: Bow slightly when meeting someone or thanking them.
Don’t: Go in for a hug or handshake unless the other person initiates.


👞 2. Take Off Your Shoes Indoors

Entering someone’s home? Shoes off, always. Many traditional restaurants, temples, and even guesthouses also require you to remove your footwear.

Tip: Look for a shoe rack near the entrance. Indoor slippers are usually provided.


🚇 3. Mind Your Subway Manners

Korean public transport is quiet and orderly. Talking loudly, taking phone calls, or blasting music is frowned upon.

Do: Give up your seat for the elderly, pregnant women, or disabled individuals.
Don’t: Eat, shout, or sit in priority seats if you don’t qualify.


🥢 4. Table Manners Matter

Korean meals are communal, respectful, and rule-filled. For starters:

  • Wait for the eldest to start eating first.

  • Don’t stick chopsticks upright in your rice. It resembles a funeral offering.

  • Use both hands when pouring drinks, especially for someone older.

Bonus Phrase: “잘 먹겠습니다 (jal meokgetseumnida)” = “I will eat well” (said before eating).


📞 5. Respect Personal Space and Privacy

Koreans are polite but reserved. Avoid being overly touchy or making someone lose face (체면).

Do: Speak softly, queue properly, and be humble.
Don’t: Argue loudly in public or criticize Korea—you’re a guest.


📸 6. Ask Before Taking Photos

In temples, museums, or of strangers—always ask first. Not everyone appreciates being on camera.

Do: Use polite phrases like “사진 찍어도 될까요?” (sajin jjigeodo doelkkayo?)
Translation: “May I take a photo?”


🙅‍♀️ 7. Avoid Tipping

Unlike Western countries, tipping isn’t expected in Korea. In fact, it can even confuse service workers.

Exception: Some high-end restaurants or tour guides may include service charges in the bill.


👋 8. Be Polite When Leaving

When leaving a store or restaurant, a small bow and saying “감사합니다 (gamsahamnida)” = “Thank you” is the perfect way to show appreciation.

Even if your Korean is limited, a smile and a thank-you go a long way.


✅ Final Tips for Foreigners

  • Use honorifics: Add “-nim” to someone’s title (e.g., “Seonsaeng-nim” for teachers).

  • Don’t point with fingers. Use your whole hand.

  • Avoid writing names in red ink. Traditionally used for the deceased.


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